“No baby died of being loved too much”

by Laura on March 27, 2015

Miss Ainsley is now  8 months old! This little babe has definitely changed our family dynamic for the better. As this is our third child, I had grand ideas about how raising her would be.


For starters she would be sleeping through the night. This would happen of course by her lying down and drifting to sleep peacefully without the assistance of my arms holding or my boobs nursing her to sleep.

Now in our reality I get to hold this sweet babe at night, nursing her to sleep. She always starts out in her crib, but always finds her place in our bed being cuddled and nursed back to sleep.

And getting to capture these sweet moments are priceless…


For awhile I had a mentality that I was somehow failing as a mother. My baby doesn’t,  sleep through the night. She loves to be held and comforted. She loves to nurse at crazy 3 am hours. She loves when we sing to her, and of course she’s happiest when she’s held in our arms. AND ITS OKAY!

I was telling my “dilemma” of how this baby is gonna be spoiled ..yada yada yada, and my friend simply replied,

” No baby ever died of being loved to much.”

What a revelation that it takes another mother to almost give you permission to not feel guilty.  I want to cherish all the moments of our children growing up. Life is so fast and busy right now that we often forget to stop and live in the present moment.


So for all the mommas daddies that love and hold and kiss that babe too much, don’t stop. They are only this age once in their lives.



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Again, I must say it has been 9 years since we last had a little baby in this family. There are a million new baby products that you can choose from. It’s a little overwhelming. My advice: Keep it SIMPLE…

We recently went to Toys R Us to get Miss A a “activity mat”. These things that babies lay on, stare at, occasionally play with, and hopefully we get our money’s worth (quiet time) The range of this product was  $20 to $75 !! Somehow it took us 30 minutes to pick one out. sheesh.  This was not simple. We ended up choosing this one, at $20 on sale!

These are a few baby / mommy items that I have come to love! Yes there are millions and if your a new mom, or surprise new mom like me, it gets overwhelming – hopefully this little list of goodies helps!


1. Solly Baby Wrap –>

This is  an amazing lightweight, breathable wrap to carry the baby in, up to 1 year old. It is made from this amazing bamboo jersey fabric, so it’s stretchy and  soft. We have the grey/white one.

This has been my favorite item! I use it to run to the store, go to the kids sports practices, attend volleyball games, or do chores around the house with Miss Ainsley cuddled close. She sleeps so well in this.  I love that I can cover her face when in public, avoiding curious people wanting to touch and look.

 I have definitely  gotten my money’s worth with it.

Check out the Youtube Videos for “How to Wrap” and even “How to Breastfeed” while the baby is wrapped!

Solly Baby Wrap

2.  Earth Mama Angel Baby Natural Nipple Butter, 2-Ounce Jar


Clinically tested, hospital recommended Earth Mama Angel Baby Natural Nipple Butter, 2-Ounce Jar is safe, lanolin-free, zero toxin nipple cream for nursing mamas, and anyone with dry, cracked skin. They use organic ingredients, Non-GMO products that you can actually understand their ingredient list!

Okay this stuff has been a lifesaver. Though it’s been 9 years since I last breastfed, I do VERY MUCH  remember the nipple pain : red, sore, cracked, bleeding even….so sad! I’ve still had some soreness with breastfeeding this go round, but NOWHERE near what I’ve experienced in the past. I apply the cream religiously after each feeding. I love thta it’s completely safe for Miss A, and theres no need to wipe off before feeding.

You can find this at Sprouts, Central Market, and Whole Foods.

3.Leachco Cuddle-U Original Nursing Pillow

Nursing PIllow Boppy Cuddle-U

These pillows are pretty cool. It holds your babe at the right height to breastfeed comfortably. It has saved Miss A from whiplash when being held by the kiddos. It is great for tummy time. This particular one that I bought has a nifty strap that will hold the baby up for activity time. This brand is also much cheaper than the original “boppy” brand.

4. Baby Monitor – Babies R Us Perfect View

My Sista bought this for us, and I’m so happy with it! The reviews are kinda scary, but this has so far been great for us.

It was easy to set up. Has a good picture in both day and night. It has good range. The monitor has a large 5″ screen which is perfect for me…the stalkish mom that can’t stop staring at her babe lying in bed.  You can easily adjust the brightness of the image screen, adjust the volume, and easily turn off and on the image view. No batteries needed, this charges plug in.

5.  Graco FastAction Fold Jogger Click Connect Travel System

Graco FastAction Jogging Stroller

Miss A and I have already burned some rubber in this baby. I’m loving the jogging stroller.

Graco FastAction Jogging stroller

My babies strolling. (notice my “Guard Dog” taser…hahaha)

Why I love it : Big Wheels, Large storage basket, 2 cup holders (very important) ,  Iphone holder (fits my iphone 5) and a nifty storage are in between the cup holders, the black/grey color scheme , the front wheel is able to lock or unlock, folds up to stand on its own with kickstand with just one hand using a strap.  If you walk/run this is a great jogging stroller!

My cons: this thing is heavy, but most jogging strollers are pretty hefty. It’s large and takes up a good chunk of space in the SUV, but most jogging stroller do.  Besides that it’s pretty awesome.

6. Fisher-Price Deluxe Cradle ‘n Swing, Rainforest Friends

Why is choosing a baby swing so hard. There are about 5.2 million different swings to choose from.My first choice was this one.   However it’s sooo expensive, and babies usually only use swings for a few months from what I remembered. So I couldn’t justify the price with just one baby using this.

Fisher Price Crade Swing

Well it came down to this one. It had that new nifty side swinging action, some music, a twirling distractor, and it was on sale when I bought it…which was the main reason I went with this one! Miss A loves some nap time in this!

7. Swaddle thingys

If you value sleep time, swaddle that baby.  Babies are used to being all snug and warm from your womb, so mimic that feeling when you want them to relax and sleep.

Miss A has  slept pretty awesome at night with the help of the Summer Infant – The Original SwaddleMe Adjustable Infant Wrap Small/Medium 7-14 Pounds Leopard – CLEARANCE PRICED
I can put this in her super fast now, her arms are kept down and don’t flail around. Flailing arms is usually the reason Miss A wakes herself up.  She currently sleeps for 4-5 hour intervals at night with a quick feed around 2:45am then goes right back to bed.

SwaddleMe wrap newborn sleeping

I did try the woombie wrap, but Miss A goes crazy everytime. Ive tried to put her in it awake and  she slightly freaks out. I have successfully put her in the woombie, but she was asleep. My sister has been way more successful with the woombie with her little babe. He sleeps around 8 hours a night wrapped in the woombie, so it does work!

Don’t want to purchase a nifty swaddle apparatus? Learn how to Swaddle like a BOSS from the this post.

8. Muslin Blankets

Speaking of swaddling, you need an awesome swaddling blanket if your going to be the BOSS.

Two kinds of Muslin blankets I’ve used are the Aden By aden + anais Muslin Swaddle Blanket 4 Pack, Safari Friends  & and Carters 3 Swaddle Blankets 100% Cotton Muslin

I think the Carter’s blankets are actually a little softer than the Aden & Anais blankets.

Swaddle newborn

So these are a few of my favorite things….(cue Sound of Music)

Good Luck new mammas, and pass on any good advice…I need it!



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  Our family has anticipated this day for 10 months now…the birth of our third sweet baby. Finding out that you are pregnant for the third time, with a 9 year gap since your last little babe, was shocking to say the least. I think MM and I experienced every emotion: shocked, sad, anxious, excited, happy, and now just truly blessed that God chose us to be parents (again) to this little miracle of life.

SO my mindset with baby number tres : She will be non-fussy, low maintenance, sleeping in her own bed, won’t need a pacy because she will come out of my womb with self soothing awesomeness…. What was I thinking!

This little girl has our whole family enamored. I love snuggling, smelling her baby’s breath, rocking her to sleep, breastfeeding again, and just watching her.

Her features are beautiful and unique, yet are so much like Averi and Aiden…we make beautiful babies! Enjoy these sweet images, alot of restraint was held not to photo  overload :)

Baby Girl Birth Anouncement

The last fab 4 picture, On our way to the hospital!

Some photos from the hospital.


Ainsley Grace BIrth Day

She’s the best sleeping buddy.

daddy and ainsley






  Ainsley Grace BIrth Day

The BEST baby helpers. I have 3 pretty awesome babes.

Ainsley Grace BIrth Day

Oh my her lips, I could kiss them all day.

Ainsley Grace BIrth Day

Ainsley Grace BIrth Day

The Fam.

Ainsley Grace BIrth Day

Ainsley and Ito.Ainsley Grace BIrth Day

Coming home to Miss Annie.


At home we enjoyed my whole family for the weekend. This included a having “birth day ” cake for Miss A. made by Nana.


The Trahern Family under one roof (minus our Joshie)


…and then the kids start losing it.


One of my favorite pictures. He’s just a little bit in love.


My little mama.



She will be a lover of all things Halloween and scary movies…her 1st introduction.


Dance parties and photo shoots have happened.


Just a few pictures of my 3 baby blessings…













I always want to remember these sweet body parts.




Her birthstone is RUBY…amazing!

Ainsley Grace BIrth Day

Welcome to this crazy world Miss Ainlsey Grace.



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Miss A’s Modern Girls Nursery

by Laura on July 9, 2014

I would’ve sworn by this day that Miss A would be here already! However she has been so content in my belly and is no rush to come out. I hope this just means shes going to be the most relaxed baby ever and never cause a fuss….

Miss A will currently live in the small room off of our bedroom, once our office it will now house a child.

I wanted to keep the nursery very simple, bright, modern, and a little chic for this girl.

Everything in her room was of course thrifted and repurposed to fit in this space.

White modern nursery

Miss A’s bed is one of my favorite pieces. We found this on craigslist for only $75 ! You can purchase yours here. I love the sharp modern lines, the bright white with the wood. I painted the feet of the crib chrome silver for a little pop.

The yummy white  fuzzy rug was swiped from my sis-in-law. She purchased it off of Overstock.

White MOdern NUrsery GIrls

The Wall of DIY artwork!  I picked up this wooden arrow from Home Goods for $5 ! It got a good coat of chrome spray paint.

‘m kinda in love with my geometric artwork above her bed. I was going for that Picasso, weird, visual piece that was simple yet interesting.  It is my princess image using a ruler! And it just needed a pop of color with the heart. I found the minimalistic frame at Goodwill, and gave it coat of chrome paint.

DIY ArtWork GEometric MOdern

This dresser is one of my favorite makeovers. It was given to me by Nanna. It was originally painted in lovely primary colors on the drawers. It is the perfect sized changing table for this room !

I painted the entire dresser Dove White by Valspar, then sanded and stained the drawers.

The stain color was a mixture of left over stains I had lying around.

Oh these handles are amazing. I wanted something chunky, industrial, and chrome. I found these in the gate hardware at Home Depot. they are about 5 inches wide. They cost about $5 a piece, so not the cheapest but good enough for the look I was going for!

The curtains and rod were purchased from Home Goods.

Modern White Girls Nursery  Changing Table Dresser

I sewed up the changing pad cover, find out how here!

modern white wooden dresser and changing table

Modern White Wood Dresser Industrial Hardware from gate handles

This little mobile was the perfect find on clearance at JC Penney, in their random party decor area. It comes from Martha Stewarts collection. I wanted a geometric mobile. After scouring Pinterest and not feeling inspired this was the best option…and no crafty day needed!!

I didn’t want this to hang above the crib, I preferred it above the changing table for that little bit of distraction. I’ve always thought it weird to distract the baby in the crib while they are trying to fall asleep in bed…

Glitter Cirlce Chandelier baby mobile by Martha Stewart

These two paintings are amazing. Dumbo was hand-painted by Miss Averi and Aiden painted the longhorn. We let them each make a custom art piece for their new little sister!

custom artwork for nursery. Dumbo and longhorn

We are so ready, even little man. He told me “I can’t wait to see her face”!

little man waiting for miss a


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